Why I'm Blogging

I decided to blog as a way of documenting my transformation. I am 31 and I am on search to find out who I am. I want to be comfortable, secure, confident, and happy in my skin. I have made some changes but feel like I still have a lot of  growing to do. I think if I had went away to college I would have already gone thru this phase. I feel like I am a late bloomer and there is no one else going thru this phase this late in the game. One thing that I am getting more comfortable with is my femininity. I still consider myself  a tomboy but I have been enjoying wearing clothes from the women section. There was a time that I only shopped in the men's section, except for underwear. LOL. I still have those moments when I feel like people might be thinking "what does that big girl think she doing" or "she too big for her jeans to be that tight". Slowly but surely I am becoming more secure with who I am.